I think a lot about comedy.
Because of my job in Student Activities I’ve literally seen hundreds of comedians (many of whom I consider to be friends). I can honestly say I’ve lost hundreds of hours of my life to the art of comedy. Being around so many comedians has sharpened my own sense of humor and comedic timing, a skill I’ve been able to bring into my job and my personal life.
Last night, a group of friends and I met up to see Panic! At The Disco. We weren’t quite so successful at standing in front of the stage, but what resulted was better- six gays and a girl tossing comments, judgements and observations out at a wicked pace. It was on par with any comedy routine I’ve seen in the last 15 years. I laughed for two hours.
When I thought about the make-up of the group, it dawned on me a vast majority of the people at that table self-identify as introverts. There has been a growing discussion on #sachat about introverts. As an extrovert, I’ve been fairly quiet on the topic, choosing to read and digest rather than speak loudly (how un-extroverted of me). But for the first time, I thought about the differences between extroversion and introversion and how it played into my life.
So, what made the introverts at the table the funniest people?
- Introverts speak less than their extroverted counterparts. When an introvert finally interjects, the comment/joke has more weight.
- Because introverts speak less, the comments are funnier. They’ve mentally omitted the least funny comments and only say the lines that have true resonance.
- Introverts observe. Because the extroverts are speaking on everything they see, they’re not paying attention to the funniest opportunities. The extroverts are throwing everything against the wall to see what will stick. The introverts only throw what they know will stick to the wall. The introverts are able to consistently make more pointed, funnier observations.
As comedy is based upon observation, a skill introverts excel at, are introverts better comedians?
I’m not certain if I’m qualified to speak on that… but last night, I certainly recognized the evening was funnier because of the introverts performing last night.